Who’s really supporting your future self?
Yesterday I listened to a talk by Ed Mylett, and one point hit me so hard that I knew I had to share it with you.
He spoke about the shift that took him from a man struggling to pay his bills to a billionaire. The key? Not just his skills, not just his work ethic… but his circle — the people around him.
And here’s the real insight:
Most people in our lives talk about the past — the good old days, the way things used to be — or at best, the present. Very few focus on your future self. When your circle focuses mainly on the past, it keeps you anchored there. It solidifies what you already are today. Even if they cheer you on, they’re reinforcing your current self, not the future version you want to grow into.
But if you want real change in your business, your mindset, your life and you want to grow, transform, and become the high-performing person you dream of being… you need to improve your circle of people. You need more of those who:
- Believe in what you can become
- Support the business you want to build
- Push you toward your next level
Do an audit:
How many people in your life are cheering for your future, not just applauding your past?
Ed gave a great example:
When you attend a business, transformation, or motivational event, you feel unstoppable. Why? Because you’re surrounded by future-oriented people who lift you up. But when you return home — to your office, family, and everyday circles — that energy often fades. The environment changes… and so does your drive.
That’s why I built ExecSide - to be that circle for you.
It’s not just training and motivation (though there’s plenty of that). It’s about surrounding yourself with ambitious peers who believe in you, support your vision, and push you toward the future you want.
If you’d like to start building your circle — one that pulls you toward your future rather than holding you in your present — now is the perfect time to join.
👉 Join ExecSide today: nedoma.io/execside
Your future self will thank you.
